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How Can You Make Yourself A Magnetic Person?

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katey Martin
How Can You Make Yourself A Magnetic Person?

Everyone wants attention of people in this world no matter who they are, where are they from? Everyone wants to attract general public like movie stars, sportsman and singers. It seems like every human being has this craving of charismatic attraction to become a people magnet, whether they admit it or not.

This list will help you become a magnetic personality:

·        Stop Judging Yourself

A lot of people start evaluating themselves far too seriously. Spare it for others because they are going to do it anyway. When you stop putting yourself on the “stage” for judgment, you free yourself from unnecessary confusions. So say to yourself these magical words. “It is ok”.

It is ok to be refused for a date proposal. It is ok if your joke seemed out of place for someone. It is perfectly ok if you get poor grades because you did not pursue assignment help. It is okay if you have not gotten that job, even though this is your dream job. The point here is when you are not afraid to fail, you set yourself free – from judgments.          

·        Smile More

Because it is the world’s most powerful weapon. Ask yourself this? What happens when someone gives you a sincere, warm smile right from the middle of the heart? You smile back Right! Why do you do that? Because, According to research, smile stimulates such powerful reward mechanism in our brain that even a chocolate cannot match.

·        Be Confident

You project confidence when you look into someone’s eye and say to yourself that I am 100% in control of myself and consequently the situation. It is your firm belief and trust in yourself. Some folks say that you should fake it till you make it. I kind of disagree because you cannot fake something which you do not have.

·        Become a Leader

Leaders influence and attract people very quickly. Thanks to the Five forms of powers to their disposal. Leaders use one or more than one type of power, based on certain situations, to influence others. For Example, some leaders use“Knowledge Power” to showcase their knowledge to the less knowledgeable ones and gain immense respect.

·        Read, Read, Read

Reading magically amplify your intellectual capital. This, in turn, makes you a great communicator. You start using words and ideas that impress other people very quickly. A regular reader carries an arsenal of words that have firehouse of powers beneath them. For starters, a recommendation to you, in connection of the ongoing discussion, is the book written by Leil Lowndes “how to make anyone like you?”

Over To You…

It seems like a loaded statement, but here it is. I do not think that it is always possible or even necessary to attract everyone towards you. There are 7 billion people in this world and no two think and behave identically 100% of the time. So the best advice that I can give to anyone is that you should try to be the best version of yourself and leave the rest to the situation and people.

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