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Archie Heron
Read this before you call a woman

How to talk to a woman on the phone? How quickly can I write to her when I get the number? Find out all the secrets of picking up on the phone.

If you know how to pick up a girl and you got a phone number from a beautiful woman, that's fine. But here's where the game begins. Here's some advice on how not to make the usual phone pick-up mistakes. These rules apply not only to calling, but also to texting or talking over the Internet. Use them, and you will not burn yourself "at a distance".

1) Do not use your phone to gossip with a woman

Don't call or talk to a woman on the phone to talk to yourself. Unless you have an interesting topic to talk about. Remember that your goal should be to meet, not to talk on the phone.

2) Call as soon as possible and move on to the details.

If you got a girl's phone number, the first time you call her, never call her for any reason other than to make an appointment. If you don't know when is the best time to call, call her no later than the day or two after you get the number.

3) Speak slowly so as not to sound desperate

Speak slowly and clearly. Do not rewind like a machine gun or a person who is aware that there are 57 seconds left on the card and you have to make a date during this time.

4) Speak calmly and clearly

When you talk to a woman, you can't sound like a robot. You should have a relaxed tone of voice and be relaxed. Talk like you're talking to a friend. Don't make a stupid phone call into a big deal.

Before you call, always imagine you're calling one of the 100 cool girls you like and who are ready to go out on a date with you. This approach will let you be natural and that's what calling her is all about.

5) Don't pawn your voice messages

Never leave voice messages because most people don't listen to them at all, and even if they do, no woman will call you back. You have to make sure that you catch her and talk live.

6) Do not call or contact her too often

Many guys ask "How often can I text or call her, how often can I send a signal?" The answer is simple:
"Less than her."

Don't text her every hour "I love you" because at first she will think it's sweet, but then it's disgusting.

Contact her when you have to or have an important matter. If she doesn't answer, don't take it as an excuse to piss you off. Maybe she just doesn't get a chance to pick up, etc. If she still doesn't answer, don't call her more than twice a day (in breaks of about 4-5 hours). Alternatively, if the discussion goes by SMS, do not pull it for more than 30 minutes.

7) End the conversation before she does.

Always end the conversation first, especially if the conversation has started well and it's cool. I know it sounds weird and maybe you're thinking to yourself: "What does he say if the conversation starts, you have to continue it", I tell you no. Remember, the main goal is a real meeting. If you get a girl in a conversation and suddenly she's finished, you have a better chance of her wanting to meet. Use the "Two steps forward, one step back" technique.

I'll add that if you have a chance, it's best to take an email address from a woman, because many women give out their phone numbers just to get guys to call her (I don't know, they probably pump their ego with it). I'm sure you know a girl, which is always complaining: "Well, I can't. Someone keeps writing to me, I'm about to throw this phone away" and, of course, he keeps answering and texting someone, and keeps his cell phone in his hand all the time. The email gives you a more "personal" opportunity to contact and you will avoid being in line with the five guys who write to her.

Oh, and about that, if a girl just wants to talk on the phone and not make an appointment with you. A mission like seduction doesn't make sense if you're wasting time on "virtual" friendships. So if she doesn't want to meet, just say so: "Hey, there's nothing to talk on the phone like that. You seem interesting to me. Let's meet somewhere for tea to get to know each other better and see what happens." -That's enough. If she wants to meet, it's okay, if not, it's not worth the waste of time.

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